
Dating / Partner
I’m going to be super blunt about what I’m looking for.
I am polyamorous. I have a primary and a harem of partners that I see often. You’d have to be ok with this because it’s not going to change. I am straight. I am shamelessly a size queen. I like 8 inches and up.
I am NOT looking to add more partners into my life unless they are someone who lives close, fits into my current life seamlessly, is intelligent, shows genuine interest and we click organically. I am NOT interested in hookups or ONS. I am NOT interested in dating someone who doesn’t live in the area or is just traveling through.
I also go to swinging parties, but I’m super demisexual, so I don’t play with anyone but my partners often. I won’t do “discrete” or “secret” – everything we do would not be necessarily blasted on social media, but it’s not going to be hidden either.
I’d like to find someone within an hour of travel where I am. I can host, but also prefer if you can host occasionally.
I’m specifically looking for a casual, but ongoing relationship. I won’t date anyone monogamous who would treat me like a placeholder while he looks for “the one.” I’d like to do clothed and unclothed dates.
I’d like to find someone to connect with and someone to have deep conversations with. I’m a sapiosexual, so extra points for having quirky interests. You’d have to be a very good communicator. I’m not a fan of guys who haven’t done the work on themselves to be emotionally aware of what they need and offer. I’m also not impressed with ghosting, ignoring or game playing through online messaging. I’d prefer you were blunt, honest and transparent. I don’t want to move in (or have you move in) or share a bank account. But I am looking for a respectful, close friend.
Sexually I’m pretty vanilla at the core. I do like a bit of bondage sometimes and really like when the guy takes the lead. I love to watch and be watched. I have a VERY high drive. I’m a fan of stamina and frequency.
More extra points if you’re up for getting verified on social platforms (OF) to post pics and videos with me.
Physically, I tend to gravitate towards taller, clean cut, athletic or slender – but none of these are absolute deal breakers. I’d date anyone between ages 20 & 60, and those are loose numbers too. I’m looking more for compatibility and character rather than a number.
I am allergic to the smell of cigarette smoke, sanitizers, candle and fabreez type smells. I couldn’t do strong cologne or other product smells. I prefer a natural, clean smell. I do have health problems and wear out physically and socially, but I’m pretty good at rotating so I can enjoy life.
I enjoy being on the back of a motorcycle, going to live bands and eating good food. I’m game for just about any adventure. I’m more of a tomboy and like getting dirty and having fun, but I can get dressed up and act appropriately.
I’m a nudist (I attend nudist events regularly and live at a nude campground each summer).
I am a hippie, minimalist, gypsy and free spirit. I have the sense of humor of a 14 yr old boy, so if constant, inappropriate humor is off-putting to you, then I’m not your gal.
Schedule:
St. Croix, VI 12/24 – 3/25
Cottage Grove, WI 4/25
Cambridge, WI 5/25 – 9/25
Cottage Grove, WI 10/25 – 11/25
St. Croix, VI 12/26 – 3/26
Cottage Grove, WI 4/26
If you made it all the way down here and you feel you may fit into my life, my DM is open.
Please message me Happy Birthday and let me know a bit about you and what you’re looking for.